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In a world that is fast becoming elusive, embracing a cause and living for a purpose is an abnormality. The craze today is to chase after perishable things of life such as cars, fashion, comfort, good houses, money, beautification products, clothing and perfumes. The truth is this; poverty of purpose is becoming more rampant and worse than poverty of the purse. To really soar and be fulfilled in life is to live, pursue and die for a purpose. A life without a purpose is an empty life waiting to expire anytime.

Biblical Foundation and Definition: John 1:6-7
Purpose is a defined assignment, a cause, life’s direction, a perpetual aim, dream, vision and something worth living and dying for. To discover your purpose is to have a reason for living. But without a purpose, you are merely existing and not living. As a person God has given you a divine purpose to live for.

Characteristics of Godly Purpose (Acts 26:19).

    It will make you totally obedient to God and dependent on Him for direction.
    It will make you meet human needs
    It is often revealed to you by God, not learnt or created for you by people
    It keeps coming to you even when you are tired and wish to run away from it.
    It does not make you a competitor to people, but compliment them to better             humanity.
    It will starve you of your ego and cause you to acknowledge and glorify God.
    It will shift your focus from making money but to sincerely serve the people.

Barriers to Discovering Your Purpose:

1.    Disobedience to God
2.    Operating under curses
3.    Stubbornness of heart.
4.    Revenge and anger
5.    Competitive spirit.
6.    Fear of the unknown
7.    Following people blindly and wishing to be like them.
8.    Love for money and material positions.
9.    Playfulness and frivolities.
10.    Pride of life, position and titles
11.    Habouring sin, idol worshipping etc.
12.    Prayerlessness.

Result of Purposeless Living:


    Keeping unproductive friendship and associations.
    Ego tripping and unsubmission to your Leadership.
    Loose and careless living.
    Display of ungodly characters.
    Engaging in endless talking and discussion.
    Living constantly in sin.
    Unprofitable use of time.
    Quarreling and fighting with neighbours
    Church members or associate in ministry control by envy, jealousy and bitterness.

Compass for Discovering Your Purpose:

1.    Desire - a compelling wish from inside.
2.    Burden - an internal conviction that is weighty.
3.    Passion - a feeling you can’t run away from.
4.    Dream - a lifetime thought and pictures that keeps coming while awake or during         sleep.
5.    Concern - a regular positive worry.

How to Discover your Purpose:

    Pray and seek God’s face through fasting
    Check and access what drives you
    Make up your mind to be a contributor to life and not a spectator or a consumer.
    Always value your communion periods with God.
    Don’t be satisfied with average, crave for maximum impact in whatever you do             now.
    Keep company only with purposeful people.
    Attend programmes, seminars and conferences that will enhance your vision or area         of interest
    Develop yourself in the areas you feel mostly compelled and directed by the Holy         Spirit.
    Make the Bible your closest companion, study it always and ask God to open your         eyes to see revelations beyond the letters.
    Read books, listen to tapes and keep growing in preparation for what is coming             ahead.
    Stay focused, don’t move with every fad and wind of doctrine.

To live for a purpose is to be known for something. When there is nothing to pursue there won’t be anything to possess. Life is more than material possession, need for approval, financial fulfillment e. t. c. Life is purpose. It is a pursuit of something worthwhile fulfilling.

The Benefits of Purpose:


1.    Purpose will make you focused
2.    Purpose will inspire you when downcast.
3.    Purpose will lead and guide you aright.
4.    Purpose will create opportunities for you.
5.    Purpose will cause you to make more impact.
6.    Purpose will put you on your toes for growth
7.    Purpose will propel you when you feel like quitting.
8.    Purpose will make you wanted.
9.    Purpose will attract the right people to you.
10.    Purpose helps your influence to spread.
11.    Purpose will make you productive and fruitful.
There are thousands of Christians scattered throughout the world today. Some of these are filling places of importance in the Lord’s kingdom. Others are Sitting idly by. What makes the difference? Over the years I have observed a lot of young people, mostly Christians. Some have gone on to render great service in the Cause of Christ. Some have done little for the Lord. What makes the difference?It is my belief that all Christians would like to be useful to the Lord. It is difficult for me to think that anyone would become a Christian, thus giving his allegiance to Christ, without desiring to be as active and as valuable in  the Lord’s work as possible. The fact that some are useful and others relatively useless seems to me to be a result of something other than intention or desire. It is  because of this feeling that I particularly want to invite you to think with me on the theme, “The Kind of Christian God Uses.” It is my hope that some who have hitherto been rather passive and inactive in the Lord’s Cause may, by considering certain necessary qualities of life, become more active and more useful to the Lord.
Examples of Those Chosen
Let us begin by considering some New Testament examples of those chosen by the Lord for work of special significance
 In Acts 6:. We read the story of the Grecian Jews whose widows were being neglected in the early Jerusalem church in the daily ministration of food. This oversight was called to the attention of the twelve apostles who responded, “It is not fit that we should forsake the word of God, and serve tables. Look ye out therefore, brethren, from among you seven men of good report, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business.” (Acts 6:2-3).
Seven men were to be selected from the vast multitude of members of the Jerusalem church. What were the criteria to be used in selecting the seven?
Three things are mentioned:
 (1) Men of good report. This reminds us of the qualifications of elders as stated in I Tim. 3:7, where theelder is pictured as a man of “good testimony from them that are without.”
(2) Full of the Spirit. These men must be spiritual-minded men, even though their work was to be primarily the administering of food.
 (3) Full of wisdom. This quality suggested good judgment or sound ability to think through each phase of the subject to which they were assigned.
A few pages later in the book of Acts, we read the story of the conversion of Saul of Tarsus. At one point in the story, when Ananias was objecting to his going to preach to Saul as a dangerous task, the Lord said, “Go thy way: for he is a chosen vessel unto me ... ”
(Acts 9:15). We ask, “What made this man a chosen vessel unto the Lord?” Here, I call upon your knowledge of the life of the apostlePaul. He was a man of great natural ability, fine training, deep integrity and loyalty, tremendous zeal, and many other fine qualities.
These are the elements that caused him to be a “chosen vessel” to the Lord. After his conversion he was later sent to preach the gospelto the Gentile world. “And as they ministered to the Lord, and fasted, the Holy Spirit said, Separate me Barnabas and Saul for thework whereunto I have called them,” (Acts 13:2). Saul, or, as he was later called, Paul, by these sterling qualities of his life had so stood out among the multitude of people that God called him a “chosen vessel.”
Early in Christ’s public ministry he selected his twelve apostles. Luke gives this account, “And it came to pass in these days, that he went out into the mountain to pray; and he continued all night in prayer to God. And when it was day, he called his disciples; and he chose from them twelve, whom also he named apostles (Luke 6:12-13). May I suggest that each of us draw upon his own memory of previous study of the lives of the apostles to remember the many fine attributes that led the Lord to choose these particular twelve men from among the multitude of disciples that had followed him.
 We have insufficient time to name all of the qualities possessed by the apostles which caused them to be singled out for selection to this particularly important work. However, we can get a general impression of the natural abilities, the qualities of life, and the potentialities which made them particularly appealing to the Lord.
Qualities Of Christians God Uses
From a general reading of the New Testament and from careful observation of the lives of those who have been most useful in the Cause of Christ, it is possible for us to make a list of the qualities that appear to be necessary in order for a Christian to be useful in the work of the Lord. While the following list is certainly not exhaustive, it does include some of the most necessary qualities of life--qualities which each of us can strive to achieve and thereby increase his effectiveness as a servant of the Lord.
The Lord uses the talented.
The apostle Paul was a man of unusual talent, as were also many of the other apostles, Timothy, Cornelius,Lydia, and many others of whom we read in the New Testament. The Lord seeks those of unusual natural ability for they have greatpossibilities of usefulness in his work. However, almost before we have uttered these words, we remember the parable of the talents,as told in Matt. 25:14-30. Here the man of five talents was no more acceptable to the Lord than the man of two talents who used his abilities to the full. Even the man with one talent would have been equally acceptable to the Lord if he had used his one talent. We also remember Romans 12 and I Cor. 12 where the illustration of the human body is presented, indicating that while the body of Christ has many different members all are necessary and important. We realize that our Lord uses men and woman of various capacities andvarious natural abilities. No one is outside the range of the Lord’s acceptability. While those with greater talents may accomplish morein relationship to the work undertaken, those with lesser talents are equally sought in the Lord’s work.

The Lord uses the trained.
Again we think of the apostle Paul. He was highly trained, for he had studied at the feet of Gamaliel in Jerusalem; he both spoke and wrote the Greek language expertly; he knew the Greek culture well enough to quote from a Greek poem on Mars Hill in Athens; and he was accepted to teach in the school of Tyrannus in Ephesus when he resided there. Not only was Paulone of the best trained men of his generation, but he also saw the need for training others. Constantly he had younger travelingcompanions who were being trained through their association with him. This included such men as Timothy, Titus, Luke, and others.(Acts 20:4). We are also reminded of the vast amount of training that prepared Moses for his crucial role as law-giver of the OldTestament and his companion role as leader of God’s people as they came out of Egyptian bondage. Acts 7:22 says of him, that he was “instructed in all the wisdom of the Egyptians.”

The Lord uses the young.

In Acts 16:1-3, we read, “And he came also to Derbe and to Lystra: and behold, a certain disciple was there,named Timothy, the son of a Jewess that believed; but his father was a Greek. The same was well reported of by the brethren that wereat Lystra and Iconium. Him would Paul have to go forth with him.” The young man Timothy was quite useful to the apostle Paul in his travels. As we think of the entire sweep of the Bible we are impressed with the value that young people have been in God’s Cause.

Joseph was young when he began his crucial work in Egypt. Samuel was very young when he came to serve at the temple. David wasonly a shepherd boy when he was chosen to be king. Josiah was one of the youngest of the kings and yet one of the most important.

Daniel was yet young when he stood firmly for Jehovah in Babylonia. Again, however, almost before we finish saying that the Lord uses the young, we realize that he also uses the elderly and all those in between. The apostle John was almost one hundred years old when he wrote the book of Revelation. The fact is that God needs both young and old in his service and uses them all. He wants the young as early as they are able to know him and to follow his directions. He wants the old as long as they are able to serve. There is a place for those of every age in the Lord’s army.

The Lord uses the pure.

 In John 1:47, in the story of the calling of Nathaniel to become an apostle, we read Christ’s appraisal of him. “Behold, an Israelite indeed, in whom is no guile!” Those who have pure, clean lives are needed in the Lord’s work. I Tim. 3:2 indicates that the elder must be one “without reproach,” or “blameless,” as mentioned in Titus 1:6. 1 Tim. 5:22 finds the apostle Paul admonishing Timothy, “Keep thyself pure.” Only those who have renounced sin and who are guarding their own lives from evil are appropriate for the Lord’s work, since it is primarily a battle against evil. However, we hasten to add that the fact that evil has been present in a person’s life at an earlier time does not disqualify him for later service to the Lord. If the sin has been renounced and repented of, a person can yet be useful to Christ. This was true in the case of Mary Magdalene and in the case of the apostle Peter. It was also true of David in the Old Testament.

The Lord uses the humble.



 In Luke 18:9-14, we read the story of two men who went up to the temple to pray. One was a Pharisee who said, “God, I thank thee, that I am not as the rest of men.” On the other hand the publican prayed, “God, be thou merciful to me a sinner.” The Lord then evaluated the two: “This man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for everyone that exalteth himself shall be humbled; but he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.” There is no place in the Lord’s service for the arrogant and proud. Only those who are humble and realize their own inadequacy are useful to the Lord. It is not by man’s own strength that he accomplishes things for the Lord, but by the Lord’s power as it works through him. Hence, there is no place for pride and egotism.

The Lord uses the courageous

Christians who are Willing To Accept The Risks - 1 Sam. 17:38-51 - David was willing to put his life on the line for the glory of God. If the Lord hadn’t come through for him, David would have died! (Note: This was the same heart that motivated Shadrach, Meshach, Abednego and Daniel!)

Christians who are Willing To Accept The Ridicule - 1 Sam. 17:28, 32-37 - David was willing to listen to the taunts of his opponents and the jibes of his critics. To him, the rewards that came for obedience to the Lord outweighed any personal humiliation he might suffer because of others. (Ill. Even Jesus suffered ridicule - John 7:3-6)

The Lord uses the dedicated.

We think of John the Baptist whose life burned brilliantly in the wilderness because of his faithful proclamation of the truths of God. We think also of the apostle Paul whose dedication was obvious from the moment of his conversion. He had been a most effective persecutor of Christians; when converted he became a most effective proclaimer of Christ.

He held nothing back. He gave himself, his possessions, his energies, and his time to the work of the Lord. Someone has said that he served the Lord with 150 per cent of everything that he had. This dedication is of a spiritual nature and only those who have dedicated themselves to the spiritual values which Christ came to teach the world can be of great use in his work.

 The Lord uses the willing.
 We now set two passages of scripture before you because each presents a clear-cut action in regard to the Lord. In John 6:66, we read, “Upon this many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.” On the opposite side of things, we read Luke 5:11, “And when they had brought their boats to land, they left all, and followed him.” The former passage is telling about the multitude who had listened to Christ’s explanation of his spiritual kingdom. They had failed to understand or to grasp the nature of his call, hence, they turned back. The latter passage tells of the little band of men who were fishing on the Sea of Galilee one morning when Christ performed for them a great miracle. The unusual draught of fishes led them to realize that there was something more important than fishing. When Jesus said, “Fear not; from henceforth thou shalt catch men,” it led these men to turn from fishing for literal fish to fishing for the souls of men.

It is of crucial significance that we realize that the Lord can use only those who are willing to let themselves be used. There are many who have fine talent and good training but who are of no value in the Lord’s army. They are unwilling to serve. Along with fine talent, fine training, and the other qualities that prepare one for service there must be the willingness to enter upon the Lord’s work. It is this deep dedication to Christ that is crucial. Age does not matter; the level of ability is not significant; the place where one lives is of no special moment. What is significant is one’s willingness to work for the Lord. The training can be secured, if there is the willingness to live the pure, humble life that is needed and to spend one’s energies in the Cause of Christ.

This is particularly. encouraging, for these crucial matters are all under our own control. We cannot determine the level of our abilities (though we can work on it )because that is given to us at birth. However, we can determine the dedication of our hearts, the willingness of our minds, and the other qualities that enable us to serve the Lord. These we determine. There is no one who wishes to be a useful, faithful servant of the Lord who cannot be such,

 Conclusion
It is important for us to remember that no two men have the same talents and that even those whose talents might be of equal importance often find them lying in different realms. One man serves publicly, another privately. One man’s greatest avenue of service is through the giving of his material means; another man’s service is through personal contact with those who are not yet Christians. One woman serves best by rearing a godly family who will multiply her influence for generations yet to come. Another serves as a teacher of a pre-school class of children and thereby multiplies her influence for those same generations yet to come. Some serve best in business, some in the home, some in the school, and some in the professions. No one has the right to say that his is the best area of service. It matters not where nor exactly how we serve, so long as we give to the Lord the best that is in us.
We all desire to have our churches growing. If not, there is something wrong. Your call and profession might need a review. Growing a church is Biblical, and an imperative from our Lord. However, we also need to discover what it means to "grow a church." Most people consider numerical growth, and for good reasons. Numbers means success most of the time, and the more you have the more to whom you are ministering. Nevertheless, is that the main reason for growth? Well, see for yourself. Carefully read Matthew 28:18-20. Diligently examine each word. What does it say? The emphasis is on spiritual growth! Discipleship! When we are reaching all we can, all over the world, we need to be teaching them, not just corralling, and counting them!
These principles take into account the American way of life and our culture. It is sad, but true that most Christians are not mature in their faith. Over 80% come to church just to sit in the pew, either because they do not have the time to be further involved, or they do not want to be convicted or bothered. In any case, the secondary goal of the Christian life and experience is to grow in maturity and sanctification. This is rarely sought. The first goal should be our salvation and acceptance/election of our soul. Thus, the primary goals in church growth are the spiritual growth of the congregation, and growing in the Lord. When this is taking place, the numbers usually follow, because people are following the Lord and reaching out.
When I say, immaturity, I am comparing U.S. Christians to the early church, and the people in the world wide persecuted church. There is a vast difference between Christians suffering in Sudan, in mortal danger, meeting in tents and basements to worship Christ, versus the Christian in the U.S., who complains about the color of the carpet and then is attracted to a charismatic personality, unconcerned about Biblical truth.
Because of our immaturity, we have to realize how our culture works and work within it while still being true to the Word. We must also cater to people's comfort level. If people are not comfortable they will leave. You do not want people to leave for merely immature reasons. We cannot expect Christians, even those who may be mature, to have the focus and strength of a Christian in the underground church in China. Now, this is not to say that these things are shallow or wrong. They are not; they are facts of life. A genuine, committed Christian may or may not desire to spend all day on a cold floor, or meet in a basement. He may prefer to be in a comfortable room. We must strive to provide a comfortable environment, so that it can be conducive to outreach, since people are drawn to comfort rather than discomfort. (I need to say that this may sound harsh, but keep in mind that I work with and minister to and visit pastors all over the world for this ministry. There is a big difference in having visited a worship service in a cold, damp basement with members hiding from political authorities in a Middle Eastern county, people willing to risk their lives for the faith, and then coming back to my church here and hearing people complain because the room temperature is five degrees off!)


To use these Growth Principles suggestions, ask yourself, your leadership team, and your people this one question, "What Does a Healthy Church Look like?" Then listen for the feedback. Go though each of these suggestions, find out where you and your church are, and what will it take to implement the suggestions. For further help, read Preparing the Pastor and Church Leadership to Grow! and, A Primer on How to Lead and Manage the Church.
Forty-four Proven and Effective Biblical Church Growth Principles that Work!
Ideas to consider: (Romans 12:18; 14:18-19; Ephesians 4:3; Hebrews 12:14)

1.The number one reason for church growth is the preaching ability of the pastor. (Luke 3:1-7)
2.The number one reason why people stop coming to your church is conflict and gossip! (James 3:5-6)
3.The number two reason that people leave a church is poor "people skills" of the pastor and/or leadership, because they do not manage the conflicts and gossip! These poor "people skills" will cause the majority of conflicts between that pastor and the people. (Matthew 5:9)
4.The Bible must be taught in such a way that it is real and can be applied to the lives and situations of the people. You are to equip and disciple people, not just in the basics of the faith, but also in how to be Christians in their families, work, and relationships. They must be taught how to be effective Christians, and how to live their lives to His glory! (Psalm 119:9-12)
5.Preach holiness, how to worship, how to deal with sin, how to relate to one another, and how to love one another, while modeling it yourself! Evangelism, stewardship, and discipleship come out of these! As people are transformed, they can be taught and motivated. (Jeremiah 33:6; Romans 7:12; Galatians 3)
6.The best growing churches in the world have solid Biblical preaching at their core. These churches do not water down the Gospel so much that you cannot see the lifted cross! They do not overemphasize the seeker and ignore discipleship!
7.Real, heartfelt, God exalting adoration must be the focus of the worship service. It must never lift up the leaders or be a performance to entertain. It is God who is the audience and we are the people who are to praise and glorify Him! We are still to make our services friendly and innovative, as there is noting wrong with plays and contemporary themes as long as the service glories Christ and is not a medium just to entertain the people. Remember, the congregation is the performer, the worship team is the leader, and God is the audience! Don't mix these up! This is where all of the church growth and spiritual growth principles come to their focal point--the reason for discipleship, and maturity. All that we do in the church--from faith, fellowship, and outreach to facilities--come to this point and reason: TO WORSHIP CHRIST! (Psalm 138:1-4)
8.You must have a well thought out, empowered vision and mission statement with a clearly defined purpose, and strategies on what God has called you to do and be. It must be real and authentic, and you must be willing to act on it. It is one thing to write it out, but another thing to act it out (see the article on Preparing the Pastor and Church Leadership to Grow)!! (Hebrews 11:1-2)
9.Teach and model passionate spirituality. The Christian life is not meant to be dry and mundane. Even the Puritans were vibrant, just read their writings! Your job is to convince the people in your church to grow beyond just doing their duty to achieving spiritual passion and conviction. (Phil. 3:7-11)
10. The training, discipling, recognition, and encouragement of the church are critical roles for the pastor. If the senior pastor feels he does not have the gifts and abilities to equip and train others to do ministry, then he needs to build a team around him that does! If the training is not done, the church will fail! Some pastors are great teachers, but cannot do anything else. A pastor must operate in his gifted area, and encourage others who will compensate for him in the areas where he is weak. He must always strive to give support and to do the rest of these bullet points! (Romans 7:4-6; 1 Corinthians 10:14-16; 12; Ephesians 4:9-16)
11. Have a system of pastoral care to train your staff and leaders to immediately respond when they hear of a church member, especially another leader (most churches neglect their leaders, thinking they are OK and do not need anything!) or someone in their family with a pastoral need or emergency. Assign a key person to be in change by 24-hour shifts. Have a contact list and trained deacons or care workers to be ready to act when the need arises. No one is self-maintaining. We all need support and care! Make sure you have caring people to be there in a timely manner! (1 Corinthians 13:1-8; Colossians 4:5; 1 Timothy 3:14-15; Hebrews 12:14-15)
12. Confront sin, evil, and heresy in the church immediately! The leadership must put down conflict quickly, whether it involves political agendas, the color of the carpet, how to say an offertory prayer, what songs to sing, or who is to be in leadership. The church must move in purpose and unity. This is tough, but possible! (Philippians 2:14)
13. The church must be willing to spend at least one-third of its resources of time, talent, and money in outreach and missions. (Psalm 90:1-2)
14. Political agendas that are contrary to God's Word and Will are the second biggest disruption to the church! (John 13:35)
15. The church should strive to be effective. The best way to do this is by following the precepts of Scripture. We can organize the church by mobilizing the people according to their Spiritual Gifts! So few churches do this, even though it is so Scripturally clear! (Romans 12)
16. The church can achieve the extraordinary when the people serve in their area of their giftedness in a team manner. The quarrels and apathy will dry up as the energies are redirected and channeled in a Godly way. People will function less in their own strength and more in the power of the Holy Spirit. (1 Corinthians 12-14)
17. Good Biblical teaching and preaching will provide the Holy Spirit with fuel that energizes people and facilitates growth. The biggest growing churches are the ones who preach the Word with power, conviction, and in truth, such as Calvary Chapel (Acts 2:17-39)!
18. The leadership must have a real genuine sense and modeling of being Christ's servant, and the people in their care as His children. This is Servant Leadership Development. (Galatians 2:20-21; Ephesians 4:11-13)

19. Leaders of growing churches empower the people in their care. They do not see or use volunteers just as helpers, but as the tools and the prime resources with which to glorify God, and enablers of the goals of missions and needs to be reached. They do this by encouragement, training, and organization, all centered to have the people of God growing in and receiving the Spirit in order to reach the full potential that God has for them. If a pastor, coach, or key supervisor gives special recognition and encouragement even once, that leader and/or volunteer will usually remain very faithful and loyal to the church! (Romans 12; John 4:23; Colossians 1:24-29; 1 Timothy 4:15-16)
20. The leadership must be able to steer the church through rough white waters! (See our articles on Conflict Resolution, Gossip, and Hypocrisy, and Matthew 18)
21. The best plans and calls of the Lord will stall out due to conflict! God's voice is the first one muted--read the book of Amos! The Holy Spirit cannot work effectively when ill will and ill desires are running the roost. You must drop to your collective knees and pray for revival. That will work! However, church growth, spiritual or numerical, will never work in an atmosphere of conflict! (Philippians 1:6-8)
22. The best way to deal with conflict is to combat it through love. When people know that you love them and will listen to them, it is difficult for them to be mad. Love, indeed, covers a multitude of sins! (Proverbs 10:12 1 Peter 4:8)
23. Warning: do not agree when you do not! (Proverbs 9:8; 17:27-28; 26:20; 3 John 9-12)
24. Be careful about taking on too many negative people! Spread the load out. Delegate. There is only so much you can take, so guard your own heart too! (Proverbs 4:23)
25. If you want people to like you, then be nice to them! Interesting people are interesting because they are interested in others! People like people who like them, so be kind, thoughtful, listen, be polite, and do not forget to smile. Make sure you are real, for if you are not, then you are in the wrong position or profession! You must enjoy people and be interested in them to be a good leader or pastor. Being prideful and/or obnoxious only serves Satan! (James 1:2; Colossians 3:13)
26. Sometimes people just will not like you if you are modeling Christ, and some do not like to be led to Scriptural principles. These people are happy in their will and desires, and will not like the Fruits of the Spirit working around them. They are the weeds in the wheat. Let those people go, and focus on the ones whose hearts are after His! (Romans 16:17-18; Galatians 1:10; Titus 3:9-11)
27. Listening, without arguing or defending yourself, is extremely important! This requires prayer and self-discipline. If you cannot do it, you may be in the wrong profession. Have someone do it, just get it done! Your task is not to persuade people to accept your view, but to communicate Biblical precepts and get them to catch it! You are to make them feel heard. When they feel they are listened to, then their defenses will come down and relationships can be built. Then it will be a pleasure to lead them. They will respect and love you more, and will be more likely to be led by your goals. (Romans 8:31; Ephesians 4:25-29; James 3:1-12)
28. If, and when you use surveys, make sure you are determining between perceived felt needs versus real needs and what God is calling you to! Otherwise, you will take your church down a rabbit trail away from God's call! (Ephesians 5:8-21)
29. A leader must be willing to make improvements and change, even if it steps on the toes of others, but stay firm and be uncompromising to the Word. At the same time, allow people to be in the process with a listening ear, so they can catch the new direction and take ownership of it. (Colossians 4:7-8; Philippians 4:8-9)
30. Are you and your leadership learning and growing in community with one another, willing to go beyond your prejudices and fears and embrace what Christ has for you? (Colossians 1:24-29; 1 Timothy 3:14-15)
31. A church's spiritual health is a matter of focus. To develop an action plan, to change the pew-sitting church into the Christ powered church, you have to go beyond talking about it and actually do something! This requires a focus on Christ that turns into passion and conviction. That passion must come from growth in Christ. If it does not, you will be working for yourselves and not for the Lord and Creator of the Universe! The focus must be on Christ, not the church. That focus determines whether you have a survival mentality or a service mentality. Do you have a church filled with competing agendas, or one with a purpose that is poured out to our Lord? (Philippians 3:10)
32. A church must disciple, and small groups are the best means to do this. Arrange, train, and lead your small group leaders to teach the Bible clearly, going beyond just discussing passages to applying it to their daily lives. Make sure these groups focus on prayer, allowing healthy interaction, so people feel free to express issues, ask questions, and discuss the concerns of life, as the leadership encourages as well as teaches. (Psalm 119:9-12; Ecclesiastes 4:8-10; Matthew 6:33-34; 28:18-20)
33. Teach and model Discipleship, so that personal disciplines are in the Word, and you are filled with excitement and wonder, willing to train, share, and/or teach others what you have learned. (Matthew 28:18-20)
34. If the primary emphasis is on maintaining your building, or on getting more people involved, or on money, this is sure evidence that the focus is on survival. Do the people have a willingness to serve? If so, this is the greatest gauge of a Christ centered church! That willingness to model Christ in the community will only come out when it is done to others in the church first! That focus can only come out with a servant-focused attitude! (Matthew 28:18-20)
35. Pastors, who are real, and authentic, lead healthy churches. This builds trust. Real, authentic leaders will never grandstand, make up problems, or blame others, but will take responsibility, and tell their stories honestly. In wisdom, they will disclose truth, tempered with listening. Be open, and encourage the other leaders to do so too. Authentic leaders can be vulnerable and sensitive at the right times in the right places, and yet wise enough not to give out too much so as to be perceived as week and needy. Real Christians will forgive you for your mistakes when you are honest! (Acts; James 5:16; 1 John 1:8-10)
36. All to often in the church, we try to offer people community without cause. The Seeker sensitive, watered down gospel says nothing and inspires people to do nothing. Without a real cause, the church is just another civic club, such as the Kiwanis or Lions. We have to teach the transformation that only Christ gives. (Ephesians 4:11-13)
37. Find out what the image of your church is in the community. To do this, go door to door, and ask people how you can pray for them, then come together as a church to pray for them. While you are asking them for prayer requests, ask if they know about your church and what you can do to improve. By doing this, you will get a feel about how the community sees you and then you can know what areas need improvement and work. This is a great project for all ages, especially youth groups! This prayer task can also be turned into a very effective way to reach out to people and transition into a "Lighthouse of Prayer." (Matthew 10)
38. Communicating the gospel in a postmodern context can make us feel forced to compete with the entertainment industry. Do not let this happen. Most people are over stimulated already, and do not always need the PowerPoint and multimedia show. They need reality. Use media as a tool if you need to, or if your people like it, but ask and find out! (I personally love PowerPoint, but I was on staff at a church that did not, so I did not use it.) We cannot compete with Hollywood. Furthermore, we do not have to! We have the power and presence of the living God! (Isaiah 55:6-11; Jeremiah 31:31-34; Romans 6:3-11)
39. Commitment to loving and caring relationships is essential! Loving relationships that are sincere, real, and practical from the work of Christ in your church will be the quintessential factor that will bring people in far better than any evangelism campaign could ever do! People do not want to just hear about Christ as much as they want to see and experience how Christian love really works. They can do this through you! Remember that Christ lived and taught the principle that people respond when we reach out to them. (Mark 12:28-31; John 3:22; 13:35; 1 Corinthians 13)
40. Organize a prayer base in your church. See our Prayer Channel for details. See the article in our prayer channel, Leading the Church to be People of Prayer. (John 13:34-35; 20:19-23; Romans 12:1-21)
41. For successful evangelism, the key is to focus the church's evangelistic efforts on the questions and needs of non-Christians. Find the need that is not being fulfilled and fulfill it, such as a parent support group, a daycare or an after school program. (2 Corinthian 2:3-4; Colossians 1:24-29; 1 Peter 3:15)
42. Do not be afraid to preach Biblical stewardship and how to handle money. If you do not know how, acquire resources to help you. Stewardship, as well as generosity, is a sure sign of the health of your church. A stifled church, no matter how many are attending, will always have financial problems, where a small, poor church with real conviction and purpose will usually have enough! (Proverbs 3:9-10)
43. Make sure your programming is appropriate and needed. (Philippians 3:12-14)
44. A healthy church is prayerful in all of the aspects of church life and ministry. They are reliant upon God's power and the authority of His Word! (John 15:4-5)

Authored By

Dr. Richard J. Krejcir
In our walk here on earth as confessed Christians, pleasing God is not optional. It is compulsory.
God created us for his pleasure, if you you don’t want to please Him, he can do away with you.
When the first man displeased him,he sent him out of His Eden.When the second Adam came ,God announced: This is my well beloved son ,in whom I am well pleased.Psalm 149:4
For the Lord takes delight in his people;   he crowns the humble with victory.
 God desire to take pleasure in your existence.
1Cor.10:5
But with many of them God was not well pleased: for they were overthrown in the wilderness.
When God is not pleased with you he overthrows you…take you out of position, displace you and replace .you! May you not be overthrown in Jesus name.
Prov.16:7
When a man's ways please the Lord, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.
When you please the Lord, your enemies have no option but to surrender.
When you please the Lord, God defends you, and silence your adversary.
One of the things to do to please the Lord is seen in Heb11:6.
But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
….You must exercise your faith.
What Is Faith:Its ability to see beyond the natural,hold it as if it is real until it is physically realized!
Faith is the core course in our Christian journey.When you fail at that level you are a failure.
Jesus told Peter,I have prayed that …your faith faileth not.
The Christian journey is impossible without faith.
2Cor.5:7
(For we walk by faith, not by sight:)
Faith supplies the energy for our walk…for we walk by faith!
How can you be sure that you will make heaven: faith!
How can you be certain that charm will not work against you:faith
How can you live above the storms of life:faith (Mark 4:37-40)
How Will Faith Come:
According to Romans10:17,faith is generated by hearing of Gods word.
Are you in a warfare concerning the deluge of enemies against your life?Begin to listen, read and locate God Word along that line!
How Will Faith Produce:
Please let it be known that faith can produce
Protection,Provision,Promotion,Power,Peace,Purity... !But some things must be in place.
1.Faith Must Me Expressed
Rom10:10
Undeclared faith is unactivated faith.Speaking out what you believed will quicken manifestation of miracles.Dumb faith is a dead faith.
2.Faith Must Be Acted Out
To every word of faith there must be a corresponding action. Action is the seal of the Word, it guarantees performance of those things which the mouth of the Lord has spoken.
  
In the school of faith action is mandatory; it is not optional. It is the action of faith that is called the effort of faith. Until you make an effort God does not produce an effect. It is your effort that guarantees the effect.
There was a woman called Hannah in the Bible. She was called a barren woman and for many years she kept coming to God’s presence at Shiloh, weeping and complaining about her counterpart – her husband’s other wife who had children and constantly provoked her to tears, but she got no answer. One day, after she prayed, she did something she had never done.
The Bible says:
  …So the woman went her way, and did eat, and her countenance was no more sad. (Action)
 …And Elkanah knew Hannah his wife; and the LORD remembered her. (Performance)
- 1 Samuel 1:18-20
Every word of faith will demand work of faith to be fulfilled

Never forget: Without faith you cannot please God!


Anger or wrath is an intense emotional response rooted in annoyance, displeasure, or hostility which is usually irrational.yThere are Over  500 references in the  Bible; over 40 people or groups reported as angry 

Types Of Anger
1.Righteous Anger: Righteous anger is typically a reactive emotion of anger over sin,mistreatment, insult, or injustice.It is refered to as righteous indignation.. Righteous anger arises from an accurate perception of true evil, from sin as defined biblically, i.e., as a violation of God’s Word (Rom 3:23; 1 Jn 3:4). Righteous anger remains self-controlled. It keeps its head without cursing, screaming, raging, or flying off the handle. . It does not ignore people, snub people, or withdraw from people.There are three occasions when Jesus was angry (Mk 3:1-6; 10:13-16; Jn 2:13-17) and it was righteous indignation. We also have  cases of righteous anger in Saul and Jonathan (1 Sam 11:1-6; 20:24-35).
2.Sinful Anger: Sinful Anger is ‘a disorderly outburst of emotion connected with the inordinate desire for revenge.
This is what is called ANGER.
Examples Of Sinful Anger In the Bible And Causes
 1. Cain angry with Abel (Gen. 4:5,6). ..Jealousy
 2. Esau with Jacob (Gen. 27:34,45)....Cheating
 3. Jacob with Rachel (Gen. 30:2).
 4. Simeon and Levi with Shechem (Gen. 34:7)...Abuse
 5. Moses with the Israelites (Num. 20:10,11)....Irritation
 6. Balaam with his donkey (Num. 22:27)....Disappointment
 7. Balak with Balaam (Num. 24:10).)....Disappointment
 8. Eliab with David (1 Sam. 17:28)...Perceived Irresponsibility
 9. Saul with Jonathan (1 Sam. 20:32).
10. Naaman with Elisha (2 Ki. 5:11)...
11. The soldiers of Ephraim with King Amaziah (2 Chron. 25:10).
12. Ahasuerus with Vashti (Esth. 1:12).
13. Haman with Mordecai (Esth. 3:5).....Disrespect
14. Sanballat, Tobiah, and others with the Israelites (Neh. 4:1,7)...Envy
15. Job with the three comforters and with God (Job 7:11; 10:1; 13:26; 21:25; 23:2; etc.)
16. Asa with Hanani (2 Chron. 16:10).
17. Herod with the wise men (Matt. 2:16)...Disappointed Expectation
18. The older brother with his father (Luke 15:28).Perceived Cheating
19. Peter with the people who identified him as Jesus’ disciple (Matt. 26:74)...Leakage of Secret
Harmful Cosequences Of Anger:
PHYSICAL:
Anger triggers the body’s ‘fight or flight’ response. Other emotions that trigger this response include fear, excitement and anxiety. The adrenal glands flood the body with stress hormones, such as adrenaline and cortisol.
The brain shunts blood away from the gut and towards the muscles, in preparation for physical exertion. Heart rate, blood pressure and respiration increase, the body temperature rises and the skin perspires
Heaith Problems Linked With Anger
The constant flood of stress chemicals and associated metabolic changes that go with recurrent unmanaged anger can eventually cause harm to many different systems of the body.
Some of the short and long-term health problems that have been linked to unmanaged anger include:
    headache
    digestion problems, such as abdominal pain
    insomnia
    increased anxiety
    depression
    high blood pressure
    skin problems, such as eczema
    heart attack
    stroke.
    ulcers
    migraines
    low back pain
    psoriasis
    shortened life expectancy
PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS
Unexpressed—and expressed—anger impacts a person’s mental health as well. Studies have linked anger to loneliness, chronic anxiety, depression, eating disorders, sleep disorders, obsessive-compulsive behavior and phobias. Anger’s harmful effects spill over into a person’s personal and professional lives, undermining a person’s capacity for emotional fulfillment and personal and professional achievement. In other words, anger can hold you back and keep you down.
Anger inhibits the development and maintenance of intimate relationships, often resulting in marital and occupational instability. Angry people frequently blow misunderstandings and minor grievances out of proportion and are more inclined to end relationships with people, even close friends, than work to resolve problems. Other people find their demeanor and mood unpleasant to be around. Consequently, angry people often alienate themselves from others—even their own families. Angry people have trouble being effective parents and spouses.
How To Live Above Anger
Seneca, a Roman philosopher-educator (4-65 A.D.), offered the  following self-control techniques in his book "Of Anger"...
         a. Avoid frustrating situations by noting where you got angry  in the past (cf. Mt 26:41; Pr 4:14-15)
         b. Reduce your anger by taking time, focusing on other emotions (pleasure, shame, or fear), avoiding weapons of aggression,and attending to other matters (cf. Php 4:8)
         c. Respond calmly to an aggressor with empathy or mild, unprovocative comments or with no response at all (cf. Pro 15:1)
         d. If angry, concentrate on the undesirable consequences of becoming aggressive (cf. Ps 37:8)
            1) Tell yourself: "Why give them the satisfaction of knowing  you are upset?"
            2) Or "It isn't worth being mad over."
         e. Reconsider the circumstances and try to understand the motives or viewpoint of the other person (cf. Php 2:3-4)
         f. Train yourself to be empathic with others (cf. 2Ti 2:24-26)
            1) Be tolerant of human weakness
            2) Be forgiving (ask yourself if you haven't done something as bad)
            3) Follow the "great lesson of mankind: to do as we would be done by" (cf. Mt 7:12)

These three are interwoven and very confusing. Many mistake lusts for love, many lie to prove their lust and many lie to demonstrate their lust wrongly referred to as love.POINTS TO NOTE
*Don’t trick that man into living with you before marriage in other to tie him down.80% of co habiting couples end badly.
*Be careful of abusers of women. Verbal, physical and sexual abuse  are dangerous signs.
*Any man seeking secret and lust filled pictures of yours are not to be trusted. Run from them
*Beware of men who acts like dogs…going after everything in skirt, protecting you excessively as if you are already their territory, barking and biting with little provocation.
*Be intelligent enough to differentiate between honorable men and dishonorable males.
*Don’t intentionally overlook bad behaviors…it may hunt you in the future.
*Run from pathological liars. That’s a sign that he cannot be trusted.
*Avoid men who make jest of you with their fellow dogs
*Don’t let anyone take you for a fool. Try to quickly detect men who wear masks…pretending to be someone else.


The Difference Between Lust And Love

A lot of ladies have been tapped by lust. What appears to be love most of the time is lust. Now how do we differentiate the two:
SIGNS OF LUST
  You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body.
  You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
  Lust is selfish. It thinks only of itself.
 Lust is satisfied and appeased by sex only
Lust fade with time
  You are lovers, but not friends.
 Lust can easily be discouraged and quenched

SIGNS OF LOVE
  You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
  You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
  You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
  He or she motivates you to be a better person.
  You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.
  Company gratifies love
 Love increases with time
 Real love will endure all adversity

Furthermore, lust is wanting to sleep with someone while love is wanting to wake up with that person by your side. Love is a decision which will later be followed by feelings. Lust is a feeling and nothing more

To better understand lust and love, you must be acquainted with the science of attraction.
When you see an individual and your brain begin to spin, your breath become shallow and your system become temporarily disjointed. What you are experiencing is not love at first sight…because such a thing never exist.(Even mother who normally love their newborn baby at first sight, still carried them albeit secretly for 9months).What you are experiencing is lust. A release of a mood altering chemical substance called DOPAMINE into your brain.

Dopamine makes you feel high and excited. Real love is what remains when dopamine(which is usually triggered by body language, appearance, impression and words ) is gone!

Conclusion:
As a lady don’t let anyone take you for a fool. Dont embrace lust. Try and recognize lies and seek for love.
World-class universities, better career prospects and a dynamic campus experience attract a vast number of African students to study abroad. Although the advantages of studying abroad are galore, the high cost remains one of the major drawbacks. As a result study abroad aspirants look out for options that will help them decrease their financial burden of which scholarships are the most preferred and sought after. In spite of the availability of a number of scholarships for African Students to study abroad, the knowledge of the funding options is often unknown to the prospective international students. Hence, we bring to you a list of some of the important scholarship programs available for African students at some of the most popular study abroad destinations.
Harvard Fellowships in Sustainability Science
The Sustainability Science Program at Harvard University offers doctoral, post-doctoral, and mid-career fellowships in Sustainability Science. The Sustainability Science Fellowship is based on a 12-month stipend of $55,000 for post-doctoral fellows, $28,000 for doctoral fellows, and a negotiated amount for mid-career fellows depending on their citizenship, current salary, current employment location, seniority, and other sources of support ($35,000 maximum).
Rhodes Scholarships at Oxford University for International Students
The Rhodes Scholarships are postgraduate awards supporting exceptional all-round students at the University of Oxford. Established in the will of Cecil Rhodes in 1902, the Rhodes is the oldest and perhaps the most prestigious international scholarship program in the world. A Rhodes scholarship covers all University and College fees, the university application fee, a personal stipend for living expenses (£13,658 per annum 2014-15), and economy class airfare to and from Oxford at the commencement and conclusion of the scholarship.
Eldred-Waverley Scholarship at Linacre College
The Eldred-Waverley Scholarship at Linacre College was established in 2012. It funds students from sub-Saharan Africa to study the MSc African Studies at Oxford. The scholarship will cover 100% of University and college fees, a grant for living costs (of at least £10,397) and a return flight from your home country to UK. Awards are made for the full duration of your fee liability for the agreed course.
Rotary International Peace Fellowships
Each year, Rotary selects up to 100 individuals from around the world to receive fully funded academic fellowships to pursue a Certificate Program or Masters Degree program related to peace and conflict resolution and prevention at one of the participating peace centers. The Rotary Peace Fellowship includes: tuition and fees, room and board, round-trip transportation, internship/field study expenses.
Fulbright Foreign Student Program in USA
The Fulbright Foreign Student Program enables graduate students, young professionals, and artists from abroad to research and study in the United States for one year or longer at U.S. universities or other appropriate institutions. Generally, the grant funds tuition, airfare, a living stipend, and health insurance, etc. The Fulbright program provides funding for the duration of the study.
MasterCard Foundation Scholars Program for Africa
The MasterCard Foundation Scholars Program is a $500 million, 10-year initiative to educate and prepare young people – particularly from Africa – to lead change and make a positive social impact in their communities. The Scholars Program provides young people from economically disadvantaged communities who have demonstrated academic talent and leadership potential with access to quality and relevant education. The Program serves an estimated 15,000 young people at the secondary and university levels.
Schwarzman Scholars
Designed to prepare the next generation of global leaders, Schwarzman Scholars is the first scholarship created to respond to the geopolitical landscape of the 21st Century. Whether in politics, business or science, the success of future leaders around the world will depend upon an understanding of China’s role in global trends.Enrolling the inaugural class in 2016, the program will give the world’s best and brightest students the opportunity to develop their leadership skills and professional networks through a one-year Master’s Degree at Tsinghua University in Beijing – one of China’s most prestigious universities.
Australia Awards in Africa
Australia Awards, a cornerstone of the Australian Government’s development assistance program for Africa, provide access to postgraduate education, training and professional development opportunities for suitably qualified Africans from eligible countries. On their return to the workplace, Australia Awards Alumni are expected to contribute actively to development in their home countries. Award types include: Australian Awards Scholarships, to undertake higher degree studies in Australia at Masters level and the Australia Awards – Africa Fellowships, to undertake short-term, targeted professional training courses, in Australia and/or in Africa, in a range of development-focused sectors.
The University of Edinburgh Southern African Scholarships
The University of Edinburgh offers two scholarships for postgraduate study in any subject offered by the University to students from Southern African countries. One of the scholarships is available for a one-year Master’s degree programme and the other scholarship for a three year PhD degree programme. The scholarship covers the overseas rate of tuition fee and University accommodation for the duration of the postgraduate degree programme.
Westminster African Education Scholarships
The Africa Education scholarship is intended to benefit an education professional involved in higher education in sub-Saharan Africa. The scholarships cover full tuition fee award, accommodation at International Students House, living expenses and flights to and from London.
Loughborough University Graduate School Development Trust Africa Scholarships
The Loughborough University Graduate School Development Trust Africa Scholarships full-fee scholarships for international full-time taught postgraduate students who are currently domiciled (permanently living) in Africa. The scholarships cover 100% of the course fees for your chosen postgraduate taught course for one year.
DRD Scholarships for Sub-Saharan Africans
The DRD offers a limited number of DAAD merit scholarships per year for applicants from Sub-Saharan African countries with an excellent academic record, to pursue development-related Masters and PhD studies.  Scholarships include monthly allowances of 650 Euro for Master candidates and 900 Euro for PhD candidates plus travel allowances.
United Nations University Scholarships for Developing Country Students
The Japan Foundation for UNU (JFUNU) Scholarship is available for outstanding applicants from developing countries who can demonstrate a need for financial assistance and who are granted admissions to UNU-ISP. The JFUNU scholarship covers the full tuition fees, and provides a monthly allowance of 150,000 JPY* for living expenses for a maximum of 24 months. The scholarship covers travel costs to and from Japan, visa handling fees, and health/accident insurance costs must be covered by the student.   The tuition fees are fully waived for the scholarship recipients.
Wells Mountain Foundation Scholarships
These are need-based international scholarships for students from developing countries (including African nations) to gain funding for university at home and abroad. The foundation awards 20-25 scholarships per year, which range from $300 to $3000, which may be used towards tuition and fees, books, room rents and meals.
Africa London Nagasaki (ALN) Fund
Provides graduate scholarships for African scientists to gain funding for a master’s degree in an area related to disease control in Africa. Scholarship winners can choose to study in the UK at London’s Institute of Tropical Medicine, the London School of the Hygiene and Tropical Medicine or Nagasaki University in Japan.
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