These three are interwoven and very confusing. Many mistake lusts for love, many lie to prove their lust and many lie to demonstrate their lust wrongly referred to as love.POINTS TO NOTE*Don’t trick that man into living with you before marriage in other to tie him down.80% of co habiting couples end badly.
*Be careful of abusers of women. Verbal, physical and sexual abuse are dangerous signs.
*Any man seeking secret and lust filled pictures of yours are not to be trusted. Run from them
*Beware of men who acts like dogs…going after everything in skirt, protecting you excessively as if you are already their territory, barking and biting with little provocation.
*Be intelligent enough to differentiate between honorable men and dishonorable males.
*Don’t intentionally overlook bad behaviors…it may hunt you in the future.
*Run from pathological liars. That’s a sign that he cannot be trusted.
*Avoid men who make jest of you with their fellow dogs
*Don’t let anyone take you for a fool. Try to quickly detect men who wear masks…pretending to be someone else.
The Difference Between Lust And Love
A lot of ladies have been tapped by lust. What appears to be love most of the time is lust. Now how do we differentiate the two:SIGNS OF LUST
You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body.
You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
Lust is selfish. It thinks only of itself.
Lust is satisfied and appeased by sex only
Lust fade with time
You are lovers, but not friends.
Lust can easily be discouraged and quenched
SIGNS OF LOVE
You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.
He or she motivates you to be a better person.
You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.
Company gratifies love
Love increases with time
Real love will endure all adversity
Furthermore, lust is wanting to sleep with someone while love is wanting to wake up with that person by your side. Love is a decision which will later be followed by feelings. Lust is a feeling and nothing more
To better understand lust and love, you must be acquainted with the science of attraction.
When you see an individual and your brain begin to spin, your breath become shallow and your system become temporarily disjointed. What you are experiencing is not love at first sight…because such a thing never exist.(Even mother who normally love their newborn baby at first sight, still carried them albeit secretly for 9months).What you are experiencing is lust. A release of a mood altering chemical substance called DOPAMINE into your brain.
Dopamine makes you feel high and excited. Real love is what remains when dopamine(which is usually triggered by body language, appearance, impression and words ) is gone!
Conclusion:
As a lady don’t let anyone take you for a fool. Dont embrace lust. Try and recognize lies and seek for love.
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